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One of the most common questions in the world of the law of attraction is: “How can I attract someone using this method?”
The answer is yes, it’s possible. But you have to be willing to put in some work.
In the following lines, we’ll show you how.
About the Law of Attraction
The law of attraction states that like attracts like, and it’s a universal principle that governs how things work in the universe.
It is also a state of being, but many people think they can wish and pray for something to happen, and then it will magically show up in their lives.
This is not the case at all! The universe has its timeline, and it will only give you what you ask for when it feels like doing so.
If you’re new to these concepts, we detail The Law in our in-depth, comprehensive guide to the Law of Attractions for beginners.
Understanding how it works
Humans have been able to harness this power throughout our existence, but we didn’t understand how it worked exactly until recently.
Throughout our lives as humans, we have been able to attract things using the law of attraction without even knowing it. We harness this power in different ways. The most basic and popular is positive thinking or simply thinking happy thoughts. When we constantly think about something good and try to manifest it within the universe, the universe cannot help but give us exactly what we want.
For example, you’ve probably heard about someone so focused on winning a race that they ended up winning because they were so focused on their winning goal. These people harnessed the law of attraction to achieve their goals.
How to attract other people through the Law of Attraction
There are many ways to use the law of attraction, but one of the most intriguing is using it to attract other people, especially romantic interests.
If you’re looking for love, it can be intimidating to attract new people into your life. But using the law of attraction is a great way to improve your chances of success in romance.
Here are a few tips for making this technique work for you:
- Make sure you know what exactly you want from a partner (and from the relationship) before you start trying to bring someone into your life. This will help guide your visualization and affirmation processes so that they’re targeted and effective.
- Ensure that you’re in a good place within yourself before attempting to attract others — use the law of attraction and other techniques to get rid of bad feelings about yourself and relationships before focusing on attracting new people. Otherwise, those feelings may interfere with what you’re trying to achieve.
- Draw up a clear picture in your mind, or even create a written description, if that helps, of the person (or kind of person) that you want to attract. Visualize every detail as clearly as possible — picture how they look, talk and act, what they like to do with their free time, etc. This will help guide the universe as it works on manifesting this person or people who match this description in your life.
- Regularly visualize having attracted the person or kind of person you desire into your life and seeing them interacting with you in loving ways; imagine how happy they make you feel; imagine feeling appreciated by them; etc. You can also use affirmations during these visualizations, such as “I am attracting an amazing partner who loves me completely” — say these things aloud if possible but repeating them silently also works well!
Step by step method (in short)
The law of attraction is a powerful tool that can help you attract the people and experiences you want in your life.
It’s all about what you put out there—whether it’s energy or energy—and it works whether you’re conscious of it or not.
You can use the law of attraction to attract someone into your life, but it takes some effort.
Let’s wrap up the basic steps to follow:
1) Imagine what they’re like: What do they look like? What do they sound like? What kind of music do they listen to? What are their interests? You don’t have to know these things for sure; make an educated guess based on what you’ve observed from them in person or online.
2) Create an image: Take a moment, close your eyes, and imagine this person standing before you. Picture all the details about them that you just imagined—their hairstyle, clothes, posture, etc.—and create an image in your mind that represents all that detail.
3) Feel gratitude for having attracted them into your life: Gratitude is essential when working with the law of attraction because it helps open up our hearts to receive whatever we want from life more easily.
Speed up the process
It would help to list all of your ideal qualities in a partner.
These could include things like “someone who I can talk to about anything”, “someone who makes me laugh”, or “someone who will always be there for me”. You should have at least 20 qualities on your list that are things that matter to you, and then write them down somewhere where they will stay front-of-mind (like on an index card or your phone).
Next, create your mantra that speaks to what you want from a relationship (“My partner is kind, funny, and supportive”).
This mantra should be something that feels right for YOU – it should be something you enjoy repeatedly saying because it makes YOU feel good about yourself.
How attract someone using the Law of Attraction: video by Bob Proctor
Start from here
Once you train yourself to understand how it works, you can start attracting anyone (or anything) into your life!
Here’s the step-by-step process:
- Enroll a basic training online that explains the law of attraction and leads you on this path.
- Watch/Listen/Read through it and get started with some exercises.
- It will take a few days to learn how it works, then about seven weeks of practice before you start seeing results.
- On your path, feel free to use meditation to better clean and focus your mind.
- After four months, your ability will improve tremendously, and people/things will come into your life much faster than before.
- Don’t be surprised when things like getting a new job or being introduced to your soulmate start happening in your life!
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Conclusion
I don’t want to state false hopes that the law of attraction can help you get someone you love, but I will say this: giving off positive energy and attracting positive people to you is a massive part of getting someone of your liking.
When you have people around you that are positive, good-hearted, and encouraging, it will rub off on you and make you more appealing as well.
And let me tell you a secret: most relationship problems come from within anyway. So if we attract someone from within ourselves, we might as well make an impact by surrounding ourselves with the best we can get!